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Mediator as Conductor Pt.6 Compassion Suite

  • 1.  Mediator as Conductor Pt.6 Compassion Suite

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    The mediator as conductor: Repertoire

    David Mitchell

    Compassion and Self-compassion
    The sixth article in the 'Mediator as a conductor' series

    Compassion and its place in a Mediator

    "Compassion is perhaps one of the most basic virtues that might be expected of mediators."[1]

    Compassion is slowly emerging from the empathy-induced mists of obfuscation by empathy studies[2] to become a signification factor in health and happiness in human beings.

    Compassion toward others has been associated with both cognitive and affective empathy, the healing of emotional pain, acceptance toward self and others, decreased negative affect, and greater forgiveness .[3]

    This paper will show how compassion develops from an autonomous decision to practise self-compassion, transcends empathy, and becomes an integral part of Aristotle's Practical Wisdom [4] . Such a combination is an ideal fit for the emotional, and intellectual traits and persona of a mediator.

    Definitions  of  Sympathy, Empathy and Compassion

    1. Sympathy is an emotional reaction of pity toward the misfortune/pain/distress of another.

        2  . Empathy  is often divided into two or more types
              a. Affective empathy, where a person experiences another's emotions.

              b. Cognitive empathy where a person tries to imagine and understand what it would be         like to be in another's shoes. This is a more detached, intellectual exercise and any action          is conditional on multiple negative factors.

        3. Compassion has been described as a special form of empathy "that involves not only         having feelings of concern for the suffering of others but also wanting to alleviate it" (Siegel & Germer)[5].

    Mascaro et al[6]  define compassion, "as the deep wish that another be free from suffering, coupled with the motivation to alleviate such suffering "

    The biggest difference between compassion and empathy is the compassionate desire to act or move to alleviate the suffering (or pain, stress, emotional distress, etc) of a person.

    The second difference is that empathy can cause  mediators to mix their emotions with those of a mediatee (contamination) or be overwhelmed by an accumulation of emotions from ongoing mediation and experience fatigue or exhaustion/burn-out. This does not happen with compassion work.

    Download the full article below: Compassion 3D.docx


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    David Mitchell
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    Mitchell Mediate
    Clarence Park SA
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